2013年10月27日 星期日

Reaction to Love

     I have heard so many love stories from my friends recently. Some are happy endings, but some are not.  One of those stories make me realize something. The story is that one of my girl dropped from Yale University and then came back to Taiwan for her boyfriend. She would be a junior this year; yet, she chose to gave up the honor she had and restart her new college life in Taiwan. She thought that princess will then lead a wonderful with his prince, but things don't go as her will. They broke up in the third month after she came back. She is now feeling painful and regrettable. She thought that she messed up her life not only in relationship but also her future. When all of her friends are junior, she needs to start from Freshman. What's worse, she couldn't really get adjust to new environment in Taiwan. I feel so sorry to hear that, and I was motivated. 
     I think it is important that all lovers should know one thing that "Never live for anyone else." It's your life; it's your decision. Only you can make your own life. We can be whomever we want to be with hope, effort , and love. We don't even need to think about giving up something that is important to us for someone because someday when we go back to introspect all these stupid things, we'll just feel blind and terrible about ourselves. Look at the future but not the past; cherish all great opportunities but not stick to temporary relationship. Life is easy if we are strong enough to be the one who are we supposed to be.
    Life goes wrong as we start planning. No one is supposed to wait for someone. Sometimes just go as our will, and then we'll find the place where we should be.

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